Have you ever noticed that there are some people in the world who just can't be happy? I happened to have a conversation with someone this afternoon that truly can't be happy. I don't get it. It makes me sad.
There are so many things I want to say to this person, but I can't. I just hope that he/she eventually figures out that no matter what, life is meant to be enjoyed, whatever our circumstances.
I wonder about myself after having conversations with people like this. I wonder if I am that negative. I wonder if I complain like that. I truly hope I don't. I'm afraid I might.
A couple of years ago Doug and I saw a story about a pastor who challenged his church to stop complaining and start changing the world through a good attitude. They have the rubber bracelets that help them to remember to be grateful. It's called
A Complaint Free World. The challenge is to go 21 days without uttering a complaint.
I tried it before. It's HARD! I didn't make it. I gave up.
But I'm going to try again. I don't want to be the kind of person that causes others to shutter when I walk up. I don't want to be a joyless person. I want to enjoy life. I want to embrace the grace that I have been given. No that doesn't mean I expect everything to be perfect, but it does mean that I choose to not dwell on the difficult.
So I ask those of you that seem me everyday, hold me accountable. I'm gonna do my best! Cause' I've got too much wonderful in my life to focus on junk.